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Coming
soon to this site are the following unique invitations to a life of wonder
7 Ways to a
Wonderful Life

Follow
your hearts dream and discover more
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Purpose
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Passion
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Presence
4
Patience
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Positivity
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Practice
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Prosperity
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The
Way
of Wonder
-stories for all your life

Follow
the journey of the hero beyond your wildest imagination
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Awaken
the sleeping beauty within.
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Learn
to make time
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Spin
straw of doing into the gold of being.
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Meet
with the outsider who is the voice of wisdom.
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learn
the language of heart awareness.
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become
the hero/ine of your life.
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find
the treasure that only you can find.
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Find
how to kiss a frog in safety.
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Learn
the answer to the riddle of your real purpose.
and so many
other tales to take you into the world of unlimited creative potential
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The
Way of Desiderata
"go
placidly amidst the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in
silence"

Want
to find peace amidst the hurry?
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want
to feel shielded in times of misfortune?
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learn
to feel the unfolding of life as you want it to be?
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overcome
the frustrated with our changing and fear filled times?
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stop
feeling cynical about love?
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be
cheerful and happy?
Read full poem by clicking on graphic
above
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The
Way of the Beatitudes
"let
your light so shine"

Attitudes of being the beauty you
are
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feel
the paradox of living as one poor in spirit.
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learn
how to follow the desires of a pure heart.
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discover
the power of gentleness to get what you want.
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find
your reward in heaven now.
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how
to transform grief and confusion.
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expand
your capacity to love and be loved.
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feel
the beatitudes as invitations to blessings.
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move
beyond the inner critic to the voice of the prophetic within
and
so much more......
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The
Radiance of the Courage

I
have awakened at dawn with wings ready to fly into another day
of loving. I feel like a dervish. Inside I am dancing. Outside
I feel I am love in action. I take an early morning walk along
the lanes around my home that are shrouded in morning mist.
The beauty of this morning is such that I am misty eyed with
thankfulness. I walk to the lake and sit quietly simply
breathing in and breathing out. This is enough.
The
heart is full and what else to do but to share this fullness.
This is the beauty of a heart in flow with the moment. The
best way I do this is to share this beauty through writing.
The best way is to allow this beauty is to allow the writing
to flow through me. The more I try to write about such beauty
the more there is resistance. The one true beauty is that of
surrender. In this surrender to beauty I feel I am a chosen
one.
“To
be born is to be chosen,” says John O`Donaghue, the
wonderful Irish writer and poet. Each of us is an embodiment
of light. Science tells us that the chances of any one of us
being here to dance on this earth are about one billion to
one. So imagine how chosen you are. Why not learn to be the
dance of the Cosmos that you already are. Why not dance the
delight you are. Why not risk all for love. This loving life
is what the writer Dan Millman calls, “The way of the
peaceful warrior.”
I
have been reflecting on what it means to be a warrior. I think
a warrior is one who has embraced the mature masculine. A
warrior is not one who has been smothered by the distorted
values of the diseased masculine within our culture at this
time. A warrior is one who loves life and is protective of
life because life is love. This is not the dynamic of the
soldier who is trained to kill or be killed. A soldier is one
who loves Thanatos more than Eros. A warrior loves the wisdom
of the erotic that is the wisdom of life and life in the body.
The
warrior is a being of wisdom. Matthew Fox, the spiritual
theologian and founder of the University of Creation
Spirituality, tells the story of a soldier who comes back from
the Vietnam War. This soldier is from the Native American
tradition. On his return to his homeland he feels wounded in
so many ways. So the elders of the tribe take him aside and
tell him, “Now we will teach you how to become a warrior.”
So
for four years he undergoes extensive training to become a
warrior. The first task he was required to do is to learn to
play the flute. Having done this he gives his first public
recital to the assembled tribe and the elders. He does well.
Following the applause each elder approaches and takes the
flute and carves a piece out of it with a knife. The flute,
like the soldier, was in pieces. It was then no longer
playable.
Then
he was given another task. So he continues to be trained in
this way for four years until there was nothing more that can
be taken way from him - even his attachment to life. He is
left to love only what was in the moment. He gives up
attachment to all that is in form to enter the formless. In
entering the formless he discovers something that can never be
taken away from him. Thus he crosses the real threshold beyond
death into the eternal. Then he is a real warrior.
I
have heard a great saying; “Do not give a gun to a warrior
who does not know how to dance.” This is to say one should
not give the ability to destroy to someone who cannot
surrender to the creative. One of the greatest weapons
available to the warrior is poetry. Especially the poetry of
life written by mystics from all traditions. This is a real
weapon. It cuts through the illusion of separateness from all
that is. It cuts to the heart of the matter. This is not the
language of the politician, the professor, the priest or
clergy or the language of perpetual growth. This is the
language of the beyond. This is the language that is a bridge
to peace beyond understanding.
I
remember being told a story about an old man who was a
warrior. This was from the movie with the title Out of
Rangoon. This old man was helping people flee across the
boarder. At the very end of the movie those who are fleeing to
safety are required to cross a bridge. In the centre of this
bridge stands a boy soldier with a gun and bayonet attached.
He is terrified, as are the rest of the party. The old man
approaches slowly and more slowly as the child soldier becomes
more and more agitated. The old man approaches with open hands
and open body and stands before this child soldier. Then he
gently pushes aside the gun and bayonet and takes the child in
his arms and the soldier weeps.
This
is the approach of the warrior who lives beyond the limitation
of time and space and can see into the illusion of
separateness. This is the real fear that causes so many of us
to act out of the madness of separateness from love. Like the
old man who crosses the real bridge of separateness from all
that is the warrior does not desire to fight. The warrior
loves life and all life. To fight is to lose. The warrior
knows that the real fight is the individual surrender to love.
In that surrender lies the true way and the real power. This
is not just surrender to another but to the one and all.
The
warrior is a dweller on the threshold between time and the
timeless. Because they enter the knowing of the timeless death
for the warrior holds no fear. The warrior is not interested
in macho posturing. The warrior flows. They flow into the
beauty of both the masculine and feminine. The warrior is not
the immature masculine. This is the one who can be persuaded
to pledge allegiance to something and anything outside of
their own understanding of what it means to “be love.”
Warriors do not believe in concepts but live for love.
A
warrior is not a fundamentalist. They are more interested in
fun and are not mentally rigid in their thinking. They flow
into the world and play. They are childlike and when they need
to be fierce they are fierce. A warrior creates peace but it
is a peace without attachment. Neither does a warrior resist
evil. This is one of the highest teachings that the warrior
understands. I love the following quote from Osho.
'A
man of peace is not a pacifist; a man of peace is simply a
pool of silence. He pulsates a new kind of energy into the
world, he sings a new song. He lives in a totally new way his
very way of live is that of grace, that of prayer, that of
compassion. Whomsoever he touches, he creates more
love-energy. The man of peace is creative. He is not against
war, because to be against anything is to be at war. He is not
against war; he simply understands why war exists. And out of
that understanding he becomes peaceful. Only when there are
many people who are pools of peace, silence, understanding,
will the war disappear.'
The
warrior is discerning. They are not judgmental. They wait.
They keep silent. They do not pledge false allegiance to
little things such as nationality, country, or to any limited
view of the world that is outside of their relationship to
love. Ultimately they are interested in only one thing and
that is surrender.
They
know that this takes tremendous courage. This is not the
courage of the soldier willing to die but the courage of the
one willing to let go into nothingness. This is why the elders
of the Native American take the wounded soldier and teach him
how to let go. They teach him how important it is to give up
all attachment to the ego and the idea of separateness from
the Great Spirit.
Many
of us have become “the people of attachment.” Our homes
are full of everything and anything. There is little space in
which “to be.” The energy around our home does not and
cannot flow and we stagnate. We slowly die within clutter and
our attachment to clutter. We find it hard to breathe out. We
refuse to let go. We, unlike the real warrior, fear our dying
and thus fear our rebirth.
In
our present culture we appease our fear of separateness and
our distance from our soul by going shopping. This is
compensation for the fact that there is little or no awe in
our lives. Shopping has become the new religion. The Mall has
become our place of worship. Our God has become the God of
perpetual growth that cannot and never can be sustained.
As
the Tao Do Ching tells us, “When men lose the sense of awe
they turn to religion.” We buy and buy things because we no
longer create. We get satisfaction but we lose our connection
with what is essential. Without expressing our co-creativity
with the Beloved we stagnate. Our ability to create is what
makes us human. Creation is what it means, “to be.” It is
what makes this being born an experience of wonder. It is what
makes this being born the experience of being chosen.
This
sense of awe is our birthright. We have to choose to allow it.
We have to become peaceful warriors and practice discernment.
Otherwise the energy field called the body begins to vibrate
at lower and lower levels until we surrender not to love but
to the slow death of passivity. Thus we never experience the
awe of “being love in action” which is the real way to be
alive in this world that is simply extraordinary.
The
energy field called the body becomes stagnant and we can no
longer fight for our life. At this point we retreat to the
non-living room and suffer from couch-potato-itis and live our
lives through surrogate celebration. What then to fight for?
What then to live for? Like everything in this culture of
never enough life too becomes a commodity that is to be
consumed.
Thus we give up, not on life, but life but as we know it. Only
this is not the only way and not anywhere near the real way.
The real way is the way of the merging of the mature masculine
with the mature feminine. This is the way where the two become
one. This is peace. We feel blessed and know that the blessing
is already here and we are it.
© Tony Cuckson 2005-2008
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I
wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that
courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It's when you know you're licked
before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.
Harper Lee in To Kill a Mockingbird, Pt. 1, Ch. 11 (1960)
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Being
deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives
you courage.
Lao
Tzu
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THE KEYS TO COURAGE
A great deal of life's problems can be solved by acting
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RADIANT HUMOR

“Yes, Jeffrey, it took brave men to
settle the West. But it also took a particular kind of courage to stay
right here in Dar...
by Leo Cullum
RADIANT LEARNING 
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Just some of the benefits of Forgive and Be Free to Create are:
You will increase your self-esteem
You will feel happier than you ever have before
You’ll feel more peaceful
You’ll be able to focus more clearly
RADIANT STORYTELLING

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